Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another (Proverbs 27:17)

Tonight I had the privilege of watching the movie Luther with two men in my LifeGroup. The movie has become one of my favorites. That said, this post is not going to be a review. You can read a fine review of Luther at New Creation Person.
No, this post is about the discussion that the movie sparked after we watched it. We were talking about sermons, that appear pretty common to most churches, which are focused on “how to live the Christian life”. In my opinion, the how to (e.g. as parent, spouse, employee) are not normally tied to the Gospel of Christ. In fact, in some sermons the name Jesus Christ is hardly mentioned at all. Seems odd right, a sermon in a Christian church and Christ is not mentioned? It’s true!
I shared my concerns that the how to is meaningless and possibly destructive unless the who, what, and why are also presented. Let me explain.
Unless a person understands that:
- he/she is a sinner subject to the wrath of God
- Christ became flesh and lived a perfect life; died on the cross in his/her place for the forgiveness of sins past, present, and future, fully satisfying the wrath of God; and rose again on the third day
- he/she must repent, turning from sin, and trusting in the forgiveness for sins that Christ offers
- Upon receiving faith (trusting) in Christ, he/she is made a new creation and adopted as a son of God
they will miss apply the why of living the Christian life.
We are called to live a certain way as a Christian because of our status in Christ. We do not do good works or live in a certain way to earn anything. No, we do good works as evidence of the salvation we have received. They are the fruit.
Notice that Paul spends the first 3 chapters of Ephesians telling them who they are in Christ. It is not until Ephesians 4:1 that Paul says I therefore, a prisoner for the Lord, urge you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling to which you have been called
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My concern is that when this order is reversed or worse (they are not even linked), we have the wrong motivation for “doing”. Are we trying earn points with God? Are we trying to avoid the wrath of God on our own? Are we our own savior?
If I understand that I should be living a certain way, say loving my wife as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25) and I refuse to forgive her infidelity, how do I deal with the guilt from not meeting God’s standard? The solution for the sin and guilt in marriage is Gospel.
All this to set up the heart of our discussion, how often do we need to hear the Gospel in our sermons? Once a year? Once a month? Twice a month? How about every single sermon! That is what I want and what the New Testament presents.
Consider the following:
For I decided to know nothing among you except Jesus Christ and him crucified.
1 Corinthians 2:2
For I delivered to you as of first importance what I also received: that Christ died for our sins in accordance with the Scriptures
1 Corinthians 15:3
but we preach Christ crucified, a stumbling block to Jews and folly to Gentiles
1 Corinthians 1:23
Well, it is getting really late. I’d love to get your take.
Note: The White Horse Inn show “We Preach Christ Crucified” (3/8/09) covers this in great detail.
Tape 2459.06 iLife #6, 1 Corinthians Series
Senior Pastor, Jeff Jones
How do we make choices when the issue is not black and white? How do we stay unified and still appealing to the world around us?
A look at 1 Corinthians 8 and Romans 14.
First a definition
- IT (i.e. the gray area, the disputable thing):
- IT includes things such as alcohol, movies, cable tv, rock/rap music, dancing, worship forms, dress codes, poker, smoking, tattoos, dating non-believers, etc.
How do you decide about the IT?
With you
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Develop your own convictions.
- 1 Corinthians 8:7-8
- 1 Corinthians 10:23
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Be solid and confident.
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Keep it between you and God:
So whatever you believe about these things keep between yourself and God. Blessed is the man who does not condemn himself by what he approves.
Romans 14:22
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Just because you can participate in some IT does not mean that you have to or should participate (personal hangups, your own weak areas)
With strong believers
Live out your convictions. They understand the freedoms we have in Christ.
With weak believers
With an unbeliever
Do whatever is best to help them come to know Christ. 1 Corinthians 10:27-29.
Though I am free and belong to no man, I make myself a slave to everyone, to win as many as possible. To the Jews I became like a Jew, to win the Jews. To those under the law I became like one under the law (though I myself am not under the law), so as to win those under the law. To those not having the law I became like one not having the law (though I am not free from God’s law but am under Christ’s law), so as to win those not having the law. To the weak I became weak, to win the weak. I have become all things to all men so that by all possible means I might save some. I do all this for the sake of the gospel, that I may share in its blessings.
1 Corinthians 9:19-23
With a legalist
Do not limit your freedom and confront the legalism head on. Jesus and Paul never appeased these legalists.
Do not listen to those who want to tell you the “right” things to do in these areas.
- Romans 14:1-3
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“Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You give a tenth of your spices—mint, dill and cummin. But you have neglected the more important matters of the law—justice, mercy and faithfulness. You should have practiced the latter, without neglecting the former. You blind guides! You strain out a gnat but swallow a camel.
“Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You clean the outside of the cup and dish, but inside they are full of greed and self-indulgence. Blind Pharisee! First clean the inside of the cup and dish, and then the outside also will be clean.
“Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You are like whitewashed tombs, which look beautiful on the outside but on the inside are full of dead men’s bones and everything unclean. In the same way, on the outside you appear to people as righteous but on the inside you are full of hypocrisy and wickedness.
Matthew 23:23-28
- Colossians 2:16-23
- Galatians 2:11-14
What is your IT?
Listen to iLife: Beyond the Back and White—Choices in the Gray with iTunes.
Tape 2459.03 iLife #3, 1 Corinthians Series
Senior Pastor, Jeff Jones
Flee from sexual sin; don’t fight it.
Flee from sexual immorality
1 Corinthians 6:18a
If you don’t want to fall off the cliff, don’t go to the edge. You are not a temptation superman!
1 Corinthians 10:12
Get married and keep your sex life healthy.
Now for the matters you wrote about: It is good for a man not to marry. But since there is so much immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband. The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife’s body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband’s body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife. Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. I say this as a concession, not as a command. I wish that all men were as I am. But each man has his own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that.
Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I am. But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.
(1 Corinthians 7:1-9 NIV)
Abstinence is the ideal before marriage, not within a marriage.
Don’t deprive each other (1 Corinthians 7:5) so that Satan will not tempt you. Withholding sex is a sure fire way to invite Satan into your marriage. This is not a justification for sin, but this sets you up for a fall.
Be seriously resolute in your commitment to sexual purity.
“Everything is permissable for me” was a popular slogan in the Corinthian church. Reality: we are free from sin, not free to sin! 1 Corinthians 6:12-13
Sexual sin is uniquely offensive to God.
1 Corinthians 6:15-20
The original Greek porneia means any sexual activity outside the marriage.
Wherever we go sexually, God goes with us. Dwell on that a bit the next time you are tempted sexually. Sexual sin is uniquely dangerous to us (v 18). Honor God with your body (v 19-20).
Jeff recommended The Gift of Sex: A Guide to Sexual Fulfillment by Clifford and Joyce Penner.
Listen to iLife: Staying Pure in a Sex-Crazed World with iTunes.
Tape 2459.02 iLife #2, 1 Corinthians Series
Spritual Growth Pastor, Drew Leaver
Tough Love
1 Corinthians 5
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Immorality is an issue, but indifference is unacceptable
1 Corinthians 5:1-5
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Ongoing, unrepentant sin is an issue.
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The purpose is restoration, not retribution.
1 Corinthians 5:5. 2 Corinthians 2:5-11
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Purity should be a priority.
1 Corinthians 5:6-8
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Our business is church business.
1 Corinthians 5:9-13
Tough Love 101
Matthew 18:15-17
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Believers who are unrepentant, unruly, and heretical.
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Personally and privately; then take a witness; and
lastly take it to the church.
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Break fellowship.
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Restore to fellowship quickly, to leadership slowly.
Listen to iLife: Tough Love with iTunes.
Note: I was at the Men’s Blast this weekend. This is the official FBCN outline for the sermon with no additonal notes.